by Tracy Ziman Jacobs | Jun 19, 2025 | Relationships
Sexual repression is not just a lack of desire. It is a loss of connection to one of the most powerful and personal parts of who we are. Whether driven by shame, trauma, religion, or rigid gender norms, sexual repression leaves many people feeling stuck, confused, and...
by Tracy Ziman Jacobs | Mar 26, 2025 | Relationships
Is love about finding the right person—or choosing to build the right relationship? Let’s explore the difference. Meet Anesu and Rufaro. They came to me for a session, and during our conversation, Rufaro admitted something deeply painful—despite years of marriage, he...
by Tracy Ziman Jacobs | Aug 14, 2023 | Relationships
First kisses are electrifying. There is so much excitement chemistry and potential. Most people could kiss for hours at the beginning of a relationship. But as time goes on, kissing loses some of its novelty. But don’t fret, it’s normal for kissing to slow down...
by Tracy Ziman Jacobs | Aug 14, 2023 | Relationships
In the journey of growing up, few topics hold as much significance and mystery as human sexuality. For many of us, discussions about sex were either conspicuously absent or shrouded in awkwardness during our formative years. It is an unfortunate reality that, far too...
by Tracy Ziman Jacobs | Jul 5, 2023 | Relationships
Using sex toys for the first time can be very intimidating, especially when faced with such a large range of strange and scary objects. My suggestion is to ask a close friend who has had experience with sex toys when searching online or going into an adult shop. It’s...
by Tracy Ziman Jacobs | Dec 17, 2021 | Relationships
BEST RELATIONSHIP ADVICE FOR COUPLES Communication is the most important piece of advice I can give couples wishing to sustain a healthy relationship. The art to communication is about: Being present – Put down your phones. Turn off the TV. Stop whatever you are...
