ABOUT

Tracy Ziman Jacobs, Totally Me Intimacy and Relationship Coaching

I’m an intimacy and relationship coach dedicated to fostering deep connections and empowering individuals and couples on their romantic journeys. With a compassionate and transformative approach, I provide a safe, supportive space for my clients to explore and enhance their relationships, focusing on communication, curiosity, empathy, and connection.

Passionate about helping people rediscover intimacy and rekindle the excitement they once felt, I equip couples with the tools and insights they need to navigate the complexities of their relationships. Whether it’s addressing sexual patterns, overcoming challenges, or reigniting desire, my work empowers clients to live more passionate and connected lives.

My expertise extends beyond coaching. I am a Clinical Imago Therapist, blending psychological insight with practical tools to help my clients achieve the intimacy they long for. My professional journey began with. qualification in social work from UNISA in 1996, and I am a registered member of SACSSP, SASHA, WAS. I am a course creator and a member of the multidisciplinary team at My Sexual Health. I run a Private Practice where I offer tailored support to individuals and couples alike. 

Beyond private sessions, my impact reaches far and wide. I have made significant contributions to mainstream media, regularly featuring as an expert guest on radio and television, and sharing my insights through various publications. I also host my own podcast, ‘Totally Not Taboo,’ where I openly explore all things intimacy and relationships, breaking taboos one conversation at a time. New episodes premiere monthly on Spotify and Youtube, and can also be found here on my website. 

Through my holistic approach, I help couples and individuals reconnect with themselves and each other, proving that meaningful intimacy isn’t just about sex, it’s about deep, fulfilling connections in every aspect of life. 

Tracy is a gifted therapist who has the ability to quickly identify and shed light on the core issues negatively impacting a relationship. 12 years into my relationship and marriage, Tracy was able to make sense of age old and current issues and point out areas of opportunity for both my husband and myself from day 1. Her guidance and advice has always been fair and constructive, even whilst having to deal with issues that some may consider “deal breakers”.

Five years prior to meeting Tracy, my husband and I consulted with another therapist for a couple months. I can say with confidence that Tracy is highly intuitive, effective, mature, and respectful with a great sense of humour and compassion. I look forward to her being a part of my marriage for as long as required.

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