When we first met Tracy we were a complicated mess … complete strangers to one another after so many years, caught up with feelings of feeling unloved, unwanted and unseen.
I knew we had to do something, our home life and children were taking the brunt of our mess. The conventional way of sitting down with a marriage counsellor just didn’t feel right … we needed something else.
Finding Tracy has been the best blessing and we are so grateful to her.
Tracy sat us down, her warm smile and good sense of humour coaxed us into her room. Through her very caring and understanding ways listened to our stories. No judgement whatsoever, creating a safe space for the two of us to pour our hearts out. Lots of tears, frustration and anger unleashed itself in her safe cocoon of space.
She made us realize that although we had lost our way, one thing was evident the love that we that we still had for one another was still there.
We are now in a much stronger space, Tracy has taught us that a marriage is not a given and you need to constantly work at it … step out of your comfort zone, you are never too old to try new things and as my husband put it so beautifully we have now entered a new phase of our marriage. He is very excited at Tracy’s ideas of homework. I am mildly terrified … making me step out of my comfort zone and knowing that it’s okay!
I can’t recommend Tracy enough, and although there is still work to be done, knowing Tracy is there to hold our hands makes the journey not so daunting.
Thank you Tracy