Totally Me Intimacy & Relationship Coaching
Your relationship doesn’t have to feel like a struggle. Whether you’re dealing with conflict, a sexless marriage, emotional disconnection,
or communication breakdowns—I help couples find their way back to each other.

About Tracy
Tracy Ziman Jacobs is a Social Worker and Intimacy and Relationship Coach based in Sandton, Johannesburg.
“I know firsthand how relationships lose their spark. I’ve lived it.
I became an intimacy and relationship coach because I saw how couples—just like I once did—slowly drift apart. It doesn’t happen overnight. It’s the quiet moments: the kisses that stop, the conversations that dry up, the emotional and physical distance that grows. Through my own personal experiences, I was led to ask deeper questions: Why does desire fade? Why do so many couples stop having sex? What’s really behind the emotional disconnection in long-term relationships? Why do marriages fail? Does it all come down to the sex? Why do couples stop having sex? Does it all come down to the sex? Something changes, but what is it?
What I found was that the problem wasn’t just about sex—but about everything that surrounds it: communication, trust, vulnerability, feeling truly seen by your partner.
Understanding the relational paradigm between people became my life’s passion. Today, I help individuals and couples rediscover intimacy, reignite desire, and reconnect in ways they never thought possible.”
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